The Contradiction in your Femininity

Updated: Dec 15, 2018

Distressed women who deny recieving


I am a passionate personal development coach and spiritual advisor with a long history of over-coming and thriving with chronic illness.

I am also a visionary who encourages radical authenticity and promotes free-thinking.

Read at your own discretion, trigger warning always in effect.

The following article is to inspire you as a woman to seek deeper into ways that you may potentially be blocking yourself from what you desire. We're going to discuss the contradiction that can often unconsciously occur in strong woman. But first we're going to discuss the power of feminine energy.

Due to the rise of feminine empowerment that has arose in hopes to reclaim our value and power as women, we often can be misguided as to what true authentic feminine power/energy is. Let's start by discussing what feminine power is not.

Feminine power is not being aggressive. It's not being loud and insulting. It's not angry and it's not combative. It's not “trying to be the man”.

The feelings of feminine oppression can run very deep. We are still in the genesis of creating a world where we're honoring authentic femininity and more equality. (We still have a long way to go) We hold this imbalance in our genetic coding. It's literally in our DNA that this is how we've been treated in human history. So take that --add in the 3-dimensional aspect of relationship experiences and women often feeling undervalued, under appreciated, not seen or heard, and even abused. Of course it's going to be slightly confusing at first to regain authentic feminine power.

**NOTE —The very tendency of somebody who's tired of this shit often is to polarize in the opposite direction. This is not authentic empowerment. The authentic rise of the feminine hinges upon her recognition and desire to want to de-polarize and integrate all aspects of herself relating to the world. (A truly healed woman)

I want you to consider how you embrace receiving. Receiving anything. A compliment for instance. How does it feel when somebody complements you? Your looks? Your hair? Your weight? What about on your mothering skills?!? How does it make you feel when somebody offers to carry bags to your car? What about when your partner offers you oral sex? How good are you at taking help from others? Receiving?